Love and Relationship

3 Tips For Becoming A Better Listener In Your Marriage

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Written by Don Adriano

You might think that you are perfect, and while you might be close to it, no one is ever really perfect – especially when emotions are involved. It is also important to think of your marriage as a living organism that needs to be cared for so that it can grow into something bigger and better. Take a few moments to reflect on the following tips for becoming a better listener in your marriage. This way, you will be able to build a healthy marriage that will last for many years to come.

Stop Thinking About Your Turn

Are you one of those people that tend to think about what they are going to say next while the other person is talking? If so – it is time to stop that bad habit. If you are focusing on what you are going to say next, you are not really listening to your spouse. Not only that, but you might just find yourself wasting your time talking because you never gave yourself a chance to create a response to what was being said to you. You might miss some very valuable points that your spouse was trying to make.

Ask More Questions

By asking questions about what your spouse was talking about will not only give you a better understanding of what is going on, but it will show him or her that you really are paying attention. Also, when you do such things, it is much more likely that your spouse will do the same for you in return.

Another thing to consider is that by asking more questions, you will be encouraging the conversation to keep going, which is great. Too many couples find themselves concerned over the lack of communication that they have with each other. When you encourage the right things, you will find yourself with positive results.

Remember Your Job As A Listener

If you always jump in with a rebuttal to what your spouse is saying, then you are not really listening. Remember, when someone wants advice or an opinion, they will generally ask you for it. If they are simply explaining why they did something a certain way, they are just expecting you to listen. They are probably not looking for a lecture or a brief on how it could have been done better.

As you can see, there are a few easy things that you can do in order to make sure that you are becoming a better listener in your marriage. While these are not all of the things that you can do, it is certainly enough to get you started in the right direction.

All you have to do now is to make sure that you are making use of the advice that you have been given, as well as any other advice that you might find along the way. Remember, the more effort you put into becoming a better listener, the easier it will come to you over time.

About the author

Don Adriano

Founder & CEO of Freelionaire
Life Coach, Entrepreneur, Investor, Author, Speaker and Mentor

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